Saturday 23 May 2020

10.c.Easy tips for Parenting of Primary School Student (Parental Responsibilities and tips)


                                          
Parental Responsibilities


Electronic Items

These days, every house is having Electronic Items like Television, music system, mobile phones, computers, and many more. These can be good and useful for the adults but can prove to be very harmful to the small children. As it is, these have attractions of their own and draw the eyeballs of everyone. The children get attracted to them very fast. However, these cause immense harm to their raw minds. They may get eyes and ears’ problems besides mental agony watching these. The gadgets are habit-forming and may, eventually, affect their studies in the long run. 

Social interactions

Man cannot live without social interaction. Teaching children to help; cooperate with and be good to others brings out good moral behavior in them. It makes them learn socialization as well.

Money and financial dealings

They must be taught money dealings by making them purchase small items; purchase bus or local train or metro train tickets by themselves. They should also be taught to have financial training by learning to manage in their pocket money.

Independent thinking

They must be encouraged to have their own free and logical opinion about various issues. However, this does not mean them to be brash in expressing their opinion to others.

Positivity

 Developing positivity and possibility-thinking are great virtues. The children should be taught to develop these. If they have these virtues, it will be easy for them to come out of any difficult situation in life.

 Appreciation

 They must learn to appreciate others. It is the easiest to ridicule anything or anybody but appreciation requires one to have keen knowledge about the subject or the person for whom he is expressing his opinion.

Having a world view

 It is responsibility of the parents to take their children around to let them know the places around.

Important Tips for the Parents

Encourage them to be inquisitive
It is their growing age and their agile minds do not know the word ‘rest’. Therefore, they are bound to come up with questions. These should be answered in such a way that their curiosity is satiated. They should be able to understand it fully well.

Appreciation
Don’t be the miser in the words of appreciation if they do something good but don’t go overboard also because they should always feel that the room for improvement is still there.

Fix responsibility
Give them responsibility and keep increasing it well within their capacity as they grow. Praise them when they fulfill it nicely.

Don’t shout at them

You may have problems but that does not give you cause to misbehave with your children. Even if they are wrong to have the patience to bear it. It will teach them this quality too.

Control their misbehavior
They must not be allowed to misbehave. It can be done by calmly telling them about it. They should be taught to behave properly. Sometimes children do it just to catch the eyeballs but such attention-seeking habits of the children should not be encouraged.

 Make rules and stick to them

If the child can follow rules at school he can do so at home as well. Parents will do well to make rules and make the children follow them too. For example, a simple rule like “No Television watching at the time of meals” or “Usage of the golden words” can be implemented. These rules are good anywhere.

Conclusion

Primary education gives foundation to the children for their future studies. Parenting plays a very important role in the support of these children in life. Both Rajkishore and Bhoomika could understand the entire gamut of Roles and Responsibilities as parents of a Primary School Student. They felt better equipped to guide Anjali in her life by following the simple principles of parenting. The guiding philosophy is to love, care, and live for your child. This will inculcate not only good feelings in the child but also make him stand on a solid footing in life. It is the best way to ensure a safe, secure, and healthy childhood that one remembers with a smile all through his life. It is a kind of chain reaction a happy child will eventually become a healthy parent too in the latter days of his life.

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R C Verma
This is the third and concluding article of this series. I hope that it has benefitted the readers. Kindly post your comments in the box or mail me: vermarajesh55@gmail.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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